Ending an online dating relationship, choose the best way.
If you start thinking that an online dating relationship isn't likely to progress to anything more, quite frequently the other person may have similar feelings about you, perhaps thinking 'we are not suitable for each other'.
Having realised this basic fact, it is usually
quite easy to terminate the relationship, no matter at which
stage it is. In most cases all you need to do is to say clearly
and firmly, that you do not want to take the internet dating any
further, because you do not think you are right for each other. Then you may wish the other person good luck with the further use of an internet dating agency uk.
Usually, if you communicate clearly, it all ends with nobody feeling upset. This is the easiest and
quickest way to end online dating relationships.
However people sometimes miss the fact, that
most likely the other person is not keen either, and may think that by ending the online dating they are being unkind to the other person. So they would rather
stop communicating, hoping that the penny 'will drop'. Yes it will
work in most cases, but some of us will see it as bad manners,
irrespective of the fact that you met 'just' through an internet dating agency uk! Some of us may feel even a bit hurt. So if you fall
into one of these categories, and it happened to you before, surely you would not do the same to
somebody else?
There are people who will start wondering what
actually happened when all online dating messaging stopped, and
who will just not take this kind of 'no' for an answer, and
then they may start pestering you. In the end you will have to
terminate the relationship properly anyway, without
any ambiguity, at which stage it may not be without any ill feelings. Certainly do not use blame as an excuse
for your 'marginal' online dating etiquette, or it will become even
more difficult. If it gets out of hand you can always use the
'block' feature available with most dating
agencies, which should be used only in the last resort.
The 'block' messaging feature is hardly
ever needed, unless the other person created
some sort of personal fantasy about you, in which case blocking any further
contact with that person may be
necessary.
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